TRADITIONAL HEALER +27631196707 IN WESTERN CAPE BISHO He’d turn down my sexual advances, rarely complimented me, and often didn’t want me to touch him, even if it was just to cuddle on the couch.I voiced my needs many times throughout our years together.He told me things like, “There‘s no point in complimenting you because enough is never enough.” He made it seem like I was an endless pit of longing whose needs he could never meet.To be fair, he was right. I wanted him to be an entirely different person. I didn’t marry him for him as he did; I married him for him as I hoped he would become.For years, I got my emotional needs through close relationships with other women. Since I wasn’t able to connect with my ex-husband very often on deeply emotional and intimate levels, I confided in my close women friends. I met often with them for coffee, dinners, and chatted with them on the phone whenever I had a spare minute. When my ex-husband came home from work, I gave him the space he snapped at me that he needed and convinced myself that our relationship was normal. At least we make each other laugh! I told myself, even though we, less and less frequently over the years, had those special moments together. I was never able to get my touch needs met though.